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old bean, nb, andro expired, any, it dinosaur
us, pnw, gmt-8

xmpp: dibi58@jabber.fr

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@ comments @ in that format, are my opinion ;-)

if i can not read your profile posts ill certainly wont accept your follow request

dont ask "why a dm" when i dm a post not cwd for dms (no dm or such,) if you dont like dms, block me first, and sayonara


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bedast

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So back in October I got labs done through Quest Diagnostics. It took two attempts because the first time their systems were down and they couldn't do anything.

Anyway, I was told the total cost of labs and my responsibility right then and there. I paid. We did all the stuff.

And I received a bill today. It's past due and full of "adjustments”.

I know Quest Diagnostics is a legit lab and all that. But is it also a scam?


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Melissa BearTrix

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I don't like judging other humans, but if you do this I shall judge you terribly ... Seriously

Hugz & xXx

Risky or Not?: 716. Arranging Objects on a Table Using Only Your Face

Episode webpage: riskyornot.libsyn.com/716-arra

Media file: traffic.libsyn.com/secure/risk


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[G.R.K.]🌈🏳️‍⚧️Ⓐ💣¡NoPasarán!

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IRAN. 31 femmes exécutées en 2024
kurdistan-au-feminin.fr/2025/0

"IRAN – Deux ans après le mouvement « Femme, vie, liberté » déclenché par le meurtre de Jina Mahsa Amini, une jeune Kurde de 22 ans tuée par la police des mœurs à cause d’un voile « non-conforme » à la charia, le régime iranien exécuté 31 femmes au cours de l’année 2024, alerte l’ONG Iran […]
L’article IRAN. 31 femmes exécutées en 2024 est apparu en premier sur Kurdistan au


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Gwyn 😈

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its really funny to me how pausing landlord super doesn't pause the physics engine or cars. getting hit by a car while paused


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AI6YR Ben

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PDS Red Flag Warning from NWS San Diego

URGENT - FIRE WEATHER MESSAGE
National Weather Service San Diego CA
1257 PM PST Mon Jan 6 2025

.A PARTICULARLY DANGEROUS SITUATION IS EXPECTED FOR INLAND ORANGE COUNTY, THE SANTA ANA MOUNTAINS, INLAND EMPIRE, AND SAN BERNARDINO MOUNTAIN FOOTHILLS FROM 7 AM TO 1 PM WEDNESDAY. A PERIOD OF
WIDESPREAD, STRONG WINDS ACCOMPANIED BY VERY DRY AIR AND CRITICALLY DRY FUELS WILL RESULT IN DANGEROUS FIRE WEATHER CONDITIONS. ANY NEW FIRE IGNITION IN THESE AREAS WILL LIKELY HAVE
VERY DANGEROUS WILDFIRE SPREAD AND BEHAVIOR WITH GREAT DIFFICULTY IN CONTAINMENT THAT COULD IMPACT LIFE AND PROPERTY.

forecast.weather.gov/showsigwx


Tags: #pds #redflagwarning #cawx #FireWx

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Douglas E. Welch

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@ai6yr This sounds waaaay to similar to what they said about COVID, but I will only worry about what IS happening, not what MIGHT happen.


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mark

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@ai6yr i couldn't figure out a snarky way to ask if they died with flu or of flu that would be funny and not disrespectful.

Of course reality existed before anyone had a chance to invent satire around it.


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Jasmine

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Trans and non-binary people only please!

In comparison to the average cis person, before I accepted that I am not cis, I was


I was way more trans-positive than the average, even within my immediate social circles, which in themselves were better than the average looking at the whole spectrum.

by Jasmine ;

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Tommi 🤯

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Superbe et doucement pensive, j’aime bien cette œuvre par @zavajer et @m2m.

Merci ❤️

zavajer.bandcamp.com/album/la-


Tags: #music #musique #indiemusic #musiqueindependant #fatigue

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[G.R.K.]©®™¡NoPasarán!🏴‍☠️✖🏴

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Jonction Est : l’enquête publique dépasse le cap des 3 000 contributions
mediacites.fr/breve/toulouse/2

"Les partisans de la Jonction Est sont de plus en plus nombreux, mais 62 % des habitants de la métropole toulousaine restent opposés à ce vieux projet autoroutier."


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Jörg Spengler

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Europa ist in Gefahr. Die Bedrohung kommt allerdings nicht von Ausländern und Geflüchteten, sondern von Rassisten, Nationalisten und Staatsfeinden.


Tags: #osterreich #afdverbot

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Elfun Rocker

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We will NEVER FORGET!!! SIGN it folks!-e

sign.moveon.org/petitions/don-


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AI6YR Ben

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VC ALERT - PSPS Advisory - 01-06-2025

2025-01-06 10:00:01 PST

Fire-prone weather has been forecast for your area. Southern California Edison is monitoring conditions and may shutoff power within 24 hours if conditions worsen. People dependent on electricity to power medical devices should begin preparing now. For more info: v c emergency.com.


Tags: #venturacounty #psps #cawx #wildfires

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Nora Reed

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hello fedi! i am nora and i have a cute little jewelry store focused on fused glass! nora.jewelry/

shares help me out!


Tags: #sellingonmastodon #artisan #jewelry

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you know you look so seattle but you feel so LA

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circumcising a baby is like giving it a goddamn tattoo

it can't consent so why the everloving fuck would you think that's okay?!?!?!?!


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elilla& zoku cuddly sadist Re:

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bdsm, lessons learned from experience domming

1. Beware consent while horny.

2. Beware negotiation of the form "I want you to try out things, I'll tell you if it gets too much". (By "beware" I don't mean "never do this" but, consider it risky, take appropriate measures.)

3. You can go a long way by paying attention to a sub's bodily reactions. You can't go all the way, you're not a telepath. Be aware of subspace mindmush and, even worse, the fawn reaction.

4. Even gold standard consent—given beforehand, with a cool head, verbally, enthusiastically, with space to change mind and ask to stop at any point—may still not be enough. Sometimes it takes people days or weeks to process an experience and realise it was bad for them.

5. Therefore there's no SSC. All BDSM is RACK. Both sides have to be aware of the risks, including the risk of the consentiest, most consented of consents still not being enough to prevent hurt.

6. It follows that the submissive has a share of responsibility. The dominant is the scene conductor, and as such bears the brunt of responsibility. But the submissive needs to be conscious of the possibility of harm even if all safety measures are taken and no one has ill intent, and that this is a risk they're taking together.

7. It follows that the dominant needs a high level of trust in the submissive, too. The harder the play the more mutual trust needed, "mutual" as in "in both directions".

8. It follows that promiscuity doesn't play well with hard kink. This type of trust cannot exist between strangers and new acquaintances.

9. That's also the case when the submissive is experienced. Obviously you need to move cautiously with someone new to kink. But with an experienced one, there's a natural dommy impulse to prove your worth, to show that you can make them come hard. This impulse has to be identified and calmly set aside. You have to edge yourself and them, too, until trust is built.

10. If you're promiscuous you end up learning a few tricks that you repeat because they are so well received. By the nature of kink, what makes 9/10 submissives melt in an orgasmic puddle will be a trauma trigger for the 10th. Until you know them well, assume each new person may be the 10th.

11. Radical honesty increases trust. From the domme side, this honesty includes not only talking about your past mistakes but going off-character to express vulnerability, insecurities etc. That will help the submissive feel comfortable in surrendering more, not less.

12. Bondage causes a "drunk" state comparable to subspace, and will affect their awareness similarly. Even light casual clothed bondage can have this effect.

13. If you do non-sexual bondage and there's any underlying sexual attraction between you two, it *will* come out. Again: as the conductor, be prepared to resist their soft moaning and arched back at the touch of our fingertips, and edge. Do not escalate to sexual touch even if they're literally begging for it, do it later after cold-headed consent is acquired. Instead of ceding to your attraction, get off on the feeling of power of being in control of it. That negotiation of the form "dunno, you can try things and I'll see how I feel" mixes very badly with rope.

14. Submissives rarely want a scene to be over and may suppress bad feelings with the goal of proving themselves. It follows that you have to be very good at "yellow", at redirecting over a bump. It's impossible to avoid a bump; some mood is always lost at "yellow"; talk with them beforehand to prepare them for that feeling, and let them know that they're in good hands and things will be picked up again soon enough.

15. Always actively thank a submissive every time they say no or yellow, show you're proud of them, both mid-scene and afterwards. Reward this behaviour, create an atmosphere of safety. It's natural to feel rejected, disappointed etc. if you were looking forward for something and it doesn't pan out. These feelings are yours to handle. The sub isn't to be made guilty for them, even accidentally. Rather, concentrate on fact that every "no" increases the trust you can put in a "yes", and use the genuine gratitude for that trust to shape your voice, facial expression etc.

16. Dommes, riggers, and sadists have boundaries too and need for aftercare too. Sometimes you need to assert them strongly.

17. I probably shouldn't operate heavy machinery after play. Even light play leaves me in an altered, elated state.

18. When starting a new kink relationship, put thought also on the non-kink part. Will there be romance? Is affectionate touching wanted? In public? Will you meet their parents as a "girlfriend" for dinner, or will you be "friends" before society? The Relationship Anarchy Smorgasbord is as useful to a new kink relation as a BDSM consent form.

19. Be prepared to unexpectedly meet your most suppressed inner demons, somehow aroused by a play session, for a late-night confrontation. But you'll be glad you did.


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Old Hollywood

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Robert Mitchum on location in Tobago during production of Heaven Knows, Mr. Allison (1957)


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CatSalad🐈🥗 (D.Burch) :blobcatrainbow:

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In light of recent events, bottoms are no longer allowed to operate the Emergency Alert System.


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Clint (he/him)

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Great technology podcast episode on Enshittifiction, the Rot Economy and Late-Stage Capitalism.

“Ed Zitron enumerates the damage being done to billions of people by the growth-at-all-costs Rot Economy - and why you need to have solidarity with your fellow user.”

podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/


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youtube.com/watch?v=o_BtoZETnE

@palestine


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