Miriam Robern's Post

I have to keep reminding myself that, while I am very happy to be out as a trans woman today, I did spend a decade prior identifying as nonbinary and taking visceral satisfaction in making randos uncomfortable with my presentation.

After I came out as a woman, "Will I look weird?" was never a consideration for me, because I'd spent ten years looking gloriously weird in public.

So apologies to my trans sisters if I push too hard. I forget that "fuck 'em" isn't everybody's first principle.