Jasmine's Post

@follpvosten my roomie was a gay guy when we were 16–17. he didn't come out until later, but uh… he could be kinda provocative sexually 😂

back then I used to sleep (just sleep, fully dressed, completely non-sexually) with my closest friend when we were 16–18, who was bi. we held hands on walks. last year she told me I helped her accept her bisexuality. i have no memory of that, but apparently we talked about it a lot and my attitude made her feel much more relaxed about it. 🥲

and then my little sister came out as a lesbian when I was ~23–25 or something.

so… I mean after all the bullying focusing on gender and sexuality, you'd expect me to at least be a bit sensitive around it, but I just wasn't. so idk if it's inherently homophobic, that slightly icky feeling. not saying I had zero homophobia, because I didn't, but it doesn't really seem connected.

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